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As for her line *If I didn't have a boyfriend...*, here's how you handle that:
First, don't panic. Recognize that if she didn't want this to go any further, she wouldn't have gone as far as she did. She's testing the waters. Women are often like monkeys: they don't let go of the last vine until they've got a good grip on the next one. Second Ignore the comment as if you didn't even hear it. She will be attracted to a man who doesn't worry about being an Alpha and stealing her away from someone who obviously isn't turning her gears the way you are. Third, say something like this: *Whoah, we hang out for a while and already you're telling me your problems. :) Obviously he's not giving you the attention you need. We'll talk.* |
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I don't do this anymore, but a few years ago, I would visit the best strip clubs, where just about every dancer was drop dead gorgeous, and upon leaving, suddenly almost every other woman I would see, I almost felt sorry for them that they weren't as sexy. (The dancers semi-nude puts you into a frame of mind where they are even more gorgeous than they would appear otherwise.) It was so easy going up to women in public places and getting numbers and emails. These women sensed that I was totally at ease, almost as if I was doing A FAVOUR FOR THEM by giving them the opportunity to give me their email!
ALL BECAUSE MY STANDARDS WERE INSTINCTIVELY RAISED. |
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You can't EXPLAIN to her why you are a sexy guy. Or why someone else is NOT a sexy or good guy for her. It doesn't work that way.
The *sexual choices* processes in the human mind are based on life the way it was a million years ago, not the way it is today. A time when we sized up our sexual mates by observing rather than talking over coffee. You're not going to change evolution overnight. Instead, you have to learn to COMMUNICATE with a mind that is operating on a million year old program. A program designed to deal with a different situation. Mind you, it was a VERY EFFECTIVE program one million years ago. It's just not updated yet. |
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